The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be.
One of the most loving things you can do for another person is let them make their own mistakes, learn their own lessons and endure in the contrast of a life they don’t really want. People only really change when they’ve hit rock bottom - sometimes the most loving thing you can do for a person is to let them and be there to help pick up the pieces. Permanent change comes from within, no one can give it to you.
I have the deepest affection for intellectual conversations. The ability to just sit and talk. About love, about life, about anything, about everything. To sit under the moon with all the time in the world, the full-speed train that is our lives slowing to a crawl. Bound by no obligations, barred by no human limitations. To speak without regret or fear of consequence. To talk for hours and about what’s really important in life.
Each person comes into this world with a specific destiny—he has something to fulfill, some message has to be delivered, some work has to be completed. You are not here accidentally—you are here meaningfully. There is a purpose behind you. The whole intends to do something through you.
Osho - Indian Mystic & Spiritual Teacher (Source: TheDailyLove)
—- This TDL newsletter came at the right time. I really needed this.
It’s the worst feeling in the world to love and hate someone all at the same time. And it’s hard to watch things change when all you want is for them to stay the same. It’s crazy when you want to let go, but you keep holding on, and you want to move on, but you’re stuck right where you started. When feelings come and go and you can’t decide what you want. When you have so many things to say, but you don’t know where to start. When you want them in your life so bad, but all you can do is push them farther and farther away. It’s so hard to think back how things used to be and look at it now and realize that things are different, and they may never be the same again. You tell yourself it’s not worth it, but if it really didn’t matter, you wouldn’t spend so much time thinking about it.
—- It really isn’t worth it. Trust me, I know from experience. Everyone warned me, but of course, me being me, I went against it. That’s Nicole for ya. Always gotta learn the hard way.
NICOLE | SAUCY (adj.) Fashionable, Fierce, Fabulous • I'm a 23 year old plus size Filipina who loves fashion & beauty. One of my favorite things to do is go thrifting. I consider myself an avid thrifter & have been for almost 3 years. I enjoy the thrill of the hunt, finding unique pieces & of course, saving money. I've found some of my fave & most cherished items through thrifting. In this blog, you'll find alot of my hauls which range from fashion to beauty. You'll also find alot of things that inspire me. This blog is an outlet for me to share a little bit of who I am with you. I hope that you enjoy & thank you for checking it out. I really do appreciate it!
